How can you fight back people who make you feel uncomfortable and stupid in front of others and always have an answer back to what you say?

Answer: == Answer == It's important to remember, in your mind, that the people who downgrade others, are only internally insecure about themselves, which is why they resort to such disgraceful behavior. Keeping that in mind helps you deal with these situations. Also, keeping a light sense of humor about everything said and ignoring taunts will discourage the person from making too much comment, and also make you feel better. Finally, why hang out with such downgrading people? You deserve better. Answer In life you will always run into careless and unthinking people. You will find 90% of the human population is fine, but there are always that 10% that you just can't deal with no matter what you do. Just remember, their actions say more about them, then they do about you. Sometimes careless and unthinking people are often taught the worth of mercies by the want of them. Do not let your emotions interfere with your own character. Stay focused and don't let them know what your thinking, and don't let them see you sweat. You must learn and understand who you are as a person. You must understand that we all have ours strengths and weaknesses. None of us are exempt. We must try to increase our strengths while minimizing our weaknesses. Still, your inner being is most important; who you are as a human. Don't be concerned about the cloths some one wears, or how much money they have, or the mark they leave on the world, their position in life, or what they appear to be. The true measure of a man (meaning mankind) is what it takes to discourage him. Stay focused and do not be discouraged. You cannot let others indicate to you who you are. You must do that! Work on developing your self-esteem, and your passion in life. The best way to fight back is by developing your own character into one who nurtures others, one who always builds up, never tears down, one who encourages, never discourages, one who loves, not one who hates. Stick to your values and good ethics no matter what and you will be one who becomes one of the heroes we so desperately need in this world today. Best wishes!! Answer 3 In accordance with answer number 2, this is true. It still hurts to be made fun of in this manner especially in front of people. The best way to deal with matters like these is to let others in the public see that you are the victim. When enough becomes enough, and the crowd is on your side tell them the truth. All in all the person gauges your reaction and gets a kick out of it. They never realize what kind of person they are. The best way to deal with these people is to not deal with them at all. You seem like you are a good person trying to find their way, keep that up. If what they say really gets to you, use some kind of physical activity to let out that stress and anger you feel. I recommend TaeKwonDo, or another controlled engagement sport.